Ice Breakers: Najma Johanna

Posted February 24, 2012 by AnWaa in Lifestyle

Name: Najma Johanna
Age: 22
Career: Researcher
Twitter: @najmajohanna

1. What is the best way break the ice?
The best way to break the ice is by saying something normal and genuine. Not cheesy and stupid.

2.What initially attracts you to someone?
Height! I love a tall man with a nice build. That will make me look. Ease and confidence will make me keep looking. Add a great face and a dashing smile, and I just might be sold.

3: What are your top turn ons or turn offs?
Turn ons: Being above 6 feet, smooth dark skin with bright white teeth, great smell, make me laugh! A guy that really pays attention will win. Letting me know you actually listen to me will impress me. Plus you can use what you know to your advantage!

Turn offs: Shortness is the biggest no-no. Soft hands, ew! Men’s hands should have a little roughness to them. I don’t like when guys have curly hair either. Other turn offs: trying to impress me, being too skinny. And I can’t stand guys that are attention-seekers.

4: What is the best place to meet someone?
I think its all about the situation and timing. Meeting someone through a credible friend can create a good situation. I don’t think a club is a good place. But a happy hour or other situation in which you can actually see each other and talk is a good one. But I don’t like meeting people in the grocery store or the gym. I like to have my space while I shop or work out.

5. What is your ideal first date?
Hmm…I love trying new things. Take me somewhere I’ve never been and make me love it. I value new experiences. And love trying new food and new restaurants. A guy who knows how to create a great date without doing too much or too little is a winner.

6. What is your best or worst first date experience?
I’ve had lots of great first dates. Can’t think of a worst one. Doing well and holding my interest for a second date is the real challenge.

First Date or Wait:
Wait! Absolutely. Plus, you need to build chemistry in other areas before you can have chemistry in the bedroom.

Idris Elba or Will Smith:
Idris. Hands down. If God and I sat down and created a man, it would be him. He has all the elements that I love plus a swagger and confidence that makes it all come together. Not to mention, that he’s smart and a really nice guy.

Chocolate or Vanilla:
Chocolate. The taste is much more rich and luxurious. Which is what I like.

Wine or Liquor:
Wine. Nothing like an evening of wine and laughs with my girls.

Boxers or Boxer Briefs:
I’ve seen both look great. Depends on the guy. If you don’t have the right build for briefs, stick to boxers.

Face or Body:
Has to be both. It’s all about a total package.